How many times do I gripe? Feel sorry for myself? Complain? Say, “why me”?
The truth is I have plenty to be thankful for. My human nature tends to focus on the bad or annoying and take the good for granted.
If we are honest, aren’t most of us that way?
Today I have made a pact with myself. I will only look for the good today. No, I am not neglecting anything. I am not trying to be Polly Sunshine, or ignore the necessary. I’m doing nothing but making a choice.
1. I’m thankful for my vision. I saw the most beautiful sunrise this morning. Breathtaking, actually. God, as master artist, paints the morning canvas with hues that can never be duplicated with the human hand. It is a sight to behold. And for that I am thankful.
2. So thankful for my hearing. I woke to the sound of rushing wind going by my window. I cannot see the wind, but I sure can hear it. The sound reminds me of a roaring river. I hear the morning noises of my family, the coffee maker humming and sputtering, and the cat meowing. And for that I am thankful.
3. I’m thankful for food. As I was getting the coffee creamer out of the fridge this morning, I looked at the inside of my refrigerator. Really looked. It is packed to the max with food and trimmings for Thanksgiving. To be able to afford to feed my family…It humbles me. I know there are many who do not have what I have. I’ve been uncomfortable before, and hungry…but, never starving. When my husband went through nearly a year and a half of unemployment I knew what it was to have our family “eat cheap”. It wasn’t always great, but we didn’t go hungry. So, to have a full refrigerator makes me feel thankful.
4. I’m thankful that my husband now has a job. One that he is really good at. One that provides for our family. When one has walked through the valley of unemployment and been faced with the scary possibilities of losing everything….to have a job, makes me thankful.
5. I’m thankful for a healthy family. Sure, we all get croupy, or deal with sniffles, or stomach aches or occasion…but, we are healthy for the most part. Nothing serious. Having known the feeling of standing over the grave of a loved one, it makes me appreciate health all the more.
The truth is all these things that I just said I was thankful for…I could lose tomorrow. I could be in an accident, I could get a scary diagnosis, my family members could be hurt, and my husband could lose his job. These things happen. I am not immuned to the problems of this world.
If that were to happen I know that I still have the greatest gift of all. That is my relationship with Jesus Christ. His love knows no end.
“Who shall separate us from the love of Christ?…..No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height or depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.” Romans 8:35,37-39
There is a deep peace, that passes human understanding, when those verses really sink in…and for that I am thankful.
- Living a Thankful Life (blogcritics.org)
- Gratitude and Appreciation: More Than Words–An Energetic Upgrade (chicagonow.com)
- Embrace giving thanks, pure and simple (philly.com)
- Tough Economic Times Can Mean a More Thankful Thanksgiving (yubanet.com)
- Thankfulness quotes (christianpf.com)
- G is for Gratitude (holessence.wordpress.com)
This is such a timely post, Dawn. I’ve been really working on being more thankful in my life, focusing on the good stuff, and not just because of Thanksgiving. I just get too wrapped up in the woe-is-me type thinking and it’s so stupid.
Do you ever read Ann Voskamp’s blog? It’s http://www.aholyexperience.com Go check it out, if not. You’d love it.
That is beautiful! So important to remember things to be thankful for! Glad to hear that hubby has a job! I want to hear all about that sometime.
Happy Thanksgiving my friend!